After a somewhat self-imposed hiatus, it feels fantastic to be back to blogging for the newly redesigned Out Front blog. As regular readers of this blog, you may know that my main focus is on ally communications – how straight allies can support our LGBT counterparts by helping to advocate for equal rights and fair treatment for the LGBT community.
With more than seven million copies sold of her personal journey memoir Eat, Pray, Love and a movie adaptation out this summer (in which she’s portrayed by the seemingly ageless Julia Roberts), one could say that novelist Elizabeth Gilbert’s having a pretty good run. Unfortunately, Gilbert’s Brazilian paramour (Felipe, in the novel) was denied entrance to the U.S. after one too many trips, and the two were told they’d need to marry in order for him to re-enter the country. While Gilbert was ultimately able to marry her partner, she became aware of the sad fact that gay and lesbian Americans who fall in love overseas cannot bring their loved ones to the U.S. using the same means that were available to her.
Based on Gilbert’s own experiences with U.S. immigration laws, she became a vocal supporter of the Immigration Equality Action Fund, an organization dedicated to helping LGBT immigrant families. On September 30th, Gilbert will journey to Washington, D.C. to lobby on behalf of the Uniting American Families Act, which would give the foreign born, same-sex partners of American citizens the same rights currently enjoyed by straight couples in a similar situation.
A few facts about LGBT Binational Couples:
- An estimated 36,000 LGBT binational couples are facing imminent separation or already living in exile
- Nearly half — 47% — of LGBT binational couples are raising minor children
- Forty-five percent (45%) of binational families include a Latino/a partner
- In 79% of binational families, the non-citizen partner is from a country that doesn’t provide immigration benefits to these couples, meaning neither partner is able to sponsor the other for immigration in their home countries
Yes, same-sex immigration equality has implications outside LGBT parity (see: Arizona) but it’s also an example of how one government is representing itself in the ongoing debate regarding LGBT issues and communications. At a time when the United States has made strides (see: California Prop 8) in the LGBT fight for equality, this country still lags behind more than 20 countries worldwide that recognize same-sex couples in a permanent relationship for immigration purposes – including Brazil, where this has been legal since 2003.
Equality not-withstanding (and let’s forget about love for a moment) – if allowed to become permanent members of the U.S. LGBT community, these 36,000 couples could:
- Add to the $47.3 billion travel market for American gays and lesbians, which is about 10 percent of the U.S. travel industry
- Amplify the $743 billion LGBT consumer market
- Potentially add to the more than $70 billion dollar wedding industry in the United States.
Even as a staunch ally, I was not aware of the issues surrounding same-sex binational couples. While it may not be at the forefront of our minds like DADT or Prop 8, we must remember to not only pay attention to but get informed and communicate about all the issues surrounding the fight for LGBT equality. I won’t even try to pretend that I have a satisfactory solution to the immigration issue, but as LGBT communicators, we need to include LGBT binationals in our conversations. The only way we can truly achieve equality is to get informed, get involved and communicate.

Gay Flag and The Angel of Independence, an iconic monument in Mexico City (Courtesy of SXC)