My partner Mark and I have spent a good deal of time talking about how to protect our relationship and the steps we want to take to ensure we’ll be okay should the unthinkable happen. I’m not sure if it’s the news stories I’ve seen about partners being denied access to each other in the hospital or the experience of some of my friends, but this an issue that really resonates with me.
Earlier this year, our FH Out Front practice had the opportunity to begin working with an inspirational business leader on the launch of a product that directly addresses this issue. Deborah Dillon is a 50-year old married woman living in Louisville, Kentucky (photo at left courtesy of Deborah Dillon). She’s developed the first legal software package for gay and lesbian (and unmarried straight) couples. The package allows the user to customize legal documents that fit their particular needs: whether it be hospital visitation or joint ownership of property or myriad other daily issues.
Deb developed the software tool, and launched a new company (Muses Legal Products), after being diagnosed with a brain tumor that caused her to reexamine her priorities and consider new perspectives about life and living. Deb’s own experience included the frustrating realization that her husband didn’t have access to her medical records meaning she’d need to take special steps to ensure he could care for her and make decisions should anything happen to her. This realization was expanded when a gay friend reminded Deb that gay couples experience these kinds of challenges every day.