Archive for August, 2009

When a Nation Listens

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J0428507  When can a group of people drive powerful action? Every day. Last Thursday, concert promoters Live Nation and AEG cancelled Jamaican reggae musician Buju Banton's upcoming concert series after gay activists protested his homophobic and violent lyrics. The cancellation was a result of a one-week email campaign by gay rights activists.

In songs like the 1988 "Boom, Bye Bye," Banton sings, "If a guy comes near me, then his skin must peel. Burn him up bad like an old tire wheel." In 2004, he was tried and acquitted on charges that he participated in the beating of six gay men in Jamaica in 2004. In 2007, he signed a reggae compassionate act in 2007, stating he would not make anti-gay statements in public or release homophobic songs. He later denied this agreement.

Social media and electronic media plays a significant role in creating change. For companies like Live Nation and AEG, the decision to cancel Banton's concerts creates an open environment for consumers to voice their outrage and demand change.  We have regularly posted about the power of words. Through word of mouth, a group of unified people were able to stop the perpetuation of hatred and violence.  How can other companies learn from Live Nation and AEG and follow suit?

Border Differences

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Hands It should come as no surprise that Texas border cities have remarkably high Hispanic populations, the majority being Mexican for proximity reasons. El Paso, Texas, the American city in which I grew up, is made up of many, many, many Hispanics. Some may say the recent immigrant and first generation Mexican  in El Paso is a little more particular and traditional – meaning that it usually takes them a little longer to accept progression.

Just last month, El Paso food landmark, Chico’ s Tacos kicked out two male guests for kissing. Yes, dear readers, that happened. Guards of the restaurant escorted them out and a local law enforcement officer applauded the move.

We've touched on this issue bc it was an outrage within our gay community. From the Advocate.com to Allgo to local El Paso newspapers, LGBT protests against the restaurant and the issue itself got a lot of attention.

Just when one may begin to think there is a long battle ahead, the city turns it around. This past Tuesday, the El Paso City Council voted 7 to 1 to pass a measure giving benefits to gay and unmarried partners of city employees, even though only a couple of dozen employees will be affected, according to KVIA.com.

What is interesting about El Paso, is that its government is leading its citizens towards progression. 

Of course as with any gay-related advancement come protestors. And so long as our issues continue to be discussed and brought to light, the better we are. Progress is progress and my heart is doing a little bit of a celebratory cartwheel for gay and lesbian El Pasoans.

So are the Gays of our Lives…

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Otalia190  In continuation of my full disclosure of guilty TV habits, I've been an avid viewer of "Days of our Lives" since I was a wee Z Cavaricci clad teen in Ohio. Yes, I am a Bo and Hope fan. I remember the primetime DOOL specials (that's Days of our Lives, for those of us in the know), where we saw our favorite characters light up the night screen. I, too, was distraught when John and Marlena finally left the show, after leaving at least 4 times each prior.

One of my favorite characters was Dr. Carly Manning, played by Crystal Chappell. This woman stole Bo away from Hope, was buried alive (and survived), and ended up being aristocracy. She left in the 90s, during my tear-enduced haze (though that might have been puberty). Imagine my glee when I read that Chappell would be returning to DOOL to play the same character, something like 15 years later!!

What has my favorite buried-alive doc been up to, you ask? This is where she gets even more fabulous– she's been playing the Olivia part of the same-sex couple "Otalia" (Olivia and Natalia) on "Guiding Light." Now for those who follow soap opera news, Guiding Light has been canceled, hence Chappell's return to DOOL. But, the fan base for "Otalia" has been like nothing Chappell has experienced in Soap-dom. According to an interview with the New York Times, Chappel said that she "never had this experience with a fan base before. It struck a nerve. I love this story line because it is about universal love and acceptance.”

So what's her plan to keep in touch with the loyal LGBT audience? Create her own web series. According to the Times, she will try to keep the spirit of "Otalia" alive by starting a Web series in November called “Venice.” While it won’t have Olivia and Natalia — those characters are the property of Procter & Gamble — the show will feature Ms. Chappell as a single, gay career woman, and follow other fictional inhabitants of Venice Beach, in Los Angeles. Her leading lady on “Guiding Light,” Jessica Leccia, has agreed to join the cast without pay. One big difference from Otalia: “In the first 30 seconds you see these two women kiss,” Chappell said.

Chappell is, in my humble fan adoration opinion, a genius. She is grateful for the fact that the LGBT audience accepted her as a straight woman portraying a real, loving same-sex relationship, and she brought a new level of inclusion to daytime television. Instead of leaving "Otalia" in the past, she wants to continue to showcase the lives, and loves, of the LGBT community for her fanbase. That's commitment. But, that's also recognition that we are an incredibly loyal audience (hence my cyber-stalking of her since the 1990s). I'd love to see "Guiding Light's" parent company, Procter & Gamble, give Chappell the rights to the "Otalia" characters so that we could continue to follow that specific story. Imagine the LGBT loyalty P&G would earn from those of us who DVR our "stories" every day…

Losing a Leader, But Not the Mission

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Picture1 "We know that discrimination against gay men and lesbian women exists in this country today, Number 1. Number 2, we know that there are no laws to protect them. Number 3, we know that the whole issue of gay men and lesbian women is an immutable condition. It is a condition of life."

The late Senator Edward Kennedy's (D-Mass.) words during the ENDA debates of 1996 continue to be applicable today, shortly after his passing from brain cancer. Kennedy's political legacy and commitment to the LGBT community is unprecedented, as clearly noted by the growing coverage and comments from many within the LGBT organization on the significant loss of a friend, partner and advocate.

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Discussions & Diseases

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AIDS "A lot has changed since I announced. We now have a major problem in urban America, in inner cities — the face of AIDS has changed from a gay white man's disease to a black and Latino disease. And if we don't get the black church involved, there is no way we bring these numbers down."

Magic Johnson, speaking at the 2009 National HIV Prevention Conference in Atlanta yesterday, couldn't be more correct — from his perspective and mine. Saddened by his announcement in the early nineties, the young boy that was me – who at the times saw HIV/AIDS as a distant issue never affecting my life — has since grown acutely aware of how pervasive and undersupported this issue is, both domestically and globally.

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